>>Gay people don't have any similar unifying ideology.<<
I don't like specific unifying ideologies even within myself as I really like diversity of ideas and the freedom to explore them. However my own personal credo in just about every battle I join is a quote from Jefferson:
"It is not a man's duty, as a matter of course, to devote himself to the eradication of any, even the most enormous wrong; he may still properly have other concerns to engage him; but it is his duty, at least, to wash his hands of it, and, if he gives it no thought longer, not to give it practically his support. If I devote myself to other pursuits and contemplations, I must first see, at least, that I do not pursue them sitting upon another man's shoulders. I must get off him first, that he may pursue his contemplations too." (Thoreau; "The Relation of the Individual to the State", 1848, later "Civil Disobedience".)